Entering the World of Swinging

My Primary LTR and I watched a show together this past summer called Swing Town. The show was about a couple who upon moving to an upscale neighborhood discovered that their friendly neighbors were in fact swingers. This show led to a discussion of exploring the possibility of experimenting with swinging. In December we signed up for a swingers website and have since that time been in contact with about a dozen couples, one of which invited us to a New Year’s Eve Lifestyle party. We decided to go and it had to be the most exciting party that either of us had ever been to.

I share this new part of my life with my readers simply because I view pickup as not just improving your social skills with girls, but as a journey to improve yourself in all facets of life and to open yourself up to new experiences, and as a result of how I have changed since becoming involved in the pickup community, it is those very changes that has given me the confidence to experiment in this sort of way. I of course will still study community material and go out and meet single females for my own enjoyment, but I am debating whether to share my exploits in the world of swinging on this blog or create a separate one just for that purpose.



January 14, 2009 at 9:23 PM

I vote for sharing it here. Give it a tag and make it a subset of the blog--I think it would enrich what you've already got going... who wouldn't want to embark on a quest to social mastery that meanders into a swingers lifestyle?

I say rock on, and keep your "brand" alive.


January 21, 2009 at 4:14 PM

I 2nd with Dionysus in that you should be posting any information on your experiences for others to learn or may be curious about. Plus it helps you keep track and remember what you have done and learned from those experiences. On a side note I am surprised that you were open to this, sounds more like an orgy to me.


January 22, 2009 at 11:41 AM

An orgy would require at least another person in addition to the two couples, but orgies do happen in swinging and may occur more frequently at on-premise clubs which I will delve into in a later post.